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Someone's Knocking....
« on: November 20, 2008, 11:36:40 AM »
Okay, I am going to be for real for a second. I know it is not usual but I'm
being serious. why does it seem like so many people who were active on
here and disappearing? sure I have only been hear for a little over a year,
but it seems like the people that were active when I started are
disappearing in the distance...

I hope I am not being too bold saying this because I don't think I have
been very familiarized with the members here seeing I have so little post
records on here in comparison to the others. I think it is kind of because
I am concerned. </3
« Last Edit: November 21, 2008, 02:36:52 AM by Dusty »
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Re: Someone's Knocking....
« Reply #1 on: November 21, 2008, 02:53:39 AM »
No, eNoggi, you are not being too bold and you have expressed a legitimate concern... shared by others here.  The fact is that members here sometimes have r/l issues that keep them from participating as much as they would like to...press of work and/or family, illness, vacations, etc.  Some who have posted stories in the past may be needing time and inspiration to dream up new plots. 

I have noted in observation of several boards over past years that for the most part people come and go, with a small core remaining.

Stick around eNoggi, your participation is appreciated  :D

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Re: Someone's Knocking....
« Reply #2 on: November 23, 2008, 06:20:20 PM »
Dusty already covered some issues, however, that's not all. I have had something to do with it as well. :(

A small discussion board like this needs a handful of dedicated people to keep it running with new posts and ideas. After I started the Finnish forums, my time and devotion got divided. I focused too much on the Finnish side, neglected the English side and the people on the English forums. Thought it would run by itself, but it didn't. Even now it took me several days to get here (this side of the forum), but I do have a good excuse: I was on a short trip, and I only had an old and slow laptop with me. I surfed and posted as little as I could because I'm not that patient... :oops:  Also... In some point, running this website turned from a passion into a duty, and once I was in a 'duty-mode', it killed all creativity and inspiration. I would need some serious help from other brats (Dusty included) to get it back. :sadangel:
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Re: Someone's Knocking....
« Reply #3 on: January 13, 2009, 07:25:23 PM »
I think people tend to come and go quickly in all sorts of forums, in part due to r/l circumstances, in part due to the fact that most forums focus on one subject (like here - it's spanking), and after a while, it kind of feels like everything has been said and done that could possibly be said and done. It happens everywhere, over every topic. There is a dead end, and it tends to get hit until a new crop of ideas (or members) come up and get interested.
In my case, r/l has taken over everything, including my ability to hear myself think   :hmm: I only have a few minutes to devote to anything at a time, be it work, play, my kid, whatever..........I spend alot of time on the computer to not ever get any time to have fun on it  :hmm:

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Re: Someone's Knocking....
« Reply #4 on: January 14, 2009, 10:08:39 PM »
Oh, I see. well this is my first forum and I am used to other websites where
people are avid users and practically live in the site. that and what I am
talking about is a quite popular art site that has a broad variety of art and
literature. so I see where you are getting at. thank you for clarifying.
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Re: Someone's Knocking....
« Reply #5 on: June 25, 2009, 07:14:22 PM »
Hello  eNoggi ,

As you think that things have gone a bit quiet thought I would just ay hello and dare to ask you if you think that there should be more official spanking of girls these days .
I mean if it was returned to the norm either at home or in detention places do you think it would be an encouragement for girls not to get into trouble as so many seem to do these days .
If you were in a home for naughty girls would you be in agreement to having a bare bottom spanking from a male or female care officer ,as part of your social rehabilitation program .



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Re: Someone's Knocking....
« Reply #6 on: August 03, 2009, 05:16:10 AM »
well, Jennings, I have to ask you, why do you
exclude the boys in this loop? boys are known
to be more troublesome than girls.
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Re: Someone's Knocking....
« Reply #7 on: August 03, 2009, 07:36:38 PM »
 :D A genuine brat. Answers with a valid question.
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Re: Someone's Knocking....
« Reply #8 on: August 03, 2009, 09:27:22 PM »
:D A genuine brat. Answers with a valid question.

Well, why not? it doesn't seem fair to just consider
just the girls getting spankings, boys deserve it
just as much as a girl does! physical punishment
may seem to be more effective than mild chastising
but I think if I were to agree to girls getting it, I'd
encourages boys to get it just as much!
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Re: Someone's Knocking....
« Reply #9 on: August 04, 2009, 04:31:23 AM »
well, Jennings, I have to ask you, why do you
exclude the boys in this loop? boys are known
to be more troublesome than girls.


 :thinking:  Hmmm... hey eNoggi ... any statistics or research to back up your statement???  Girls can get into a lot of trouble ... boys do NOT have  monopoly on this  :roll: :roll: :whistle:  

Fact is, with that impudent stuck-out tongue you seem a prime example of naughty young lady  :D :D

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Re: Someone's Knocking....
« Reply #10 on: August 22, 2009, 03:35:45 AM »
I thought the point was that both get into trouble, not just girls. But no one punishes boys for growing out of their clothes, unlike girls getting too big for their skirts. (I seem to recall some knee-height rule about it in some schools). And I'm not so sure of allowing school officials or even parents this right anyway, not since I watched Dead Poets' Society. (I also read the book the movie was based on later). Things just could go so wrong...

But if there's to be official spanker, I think it better if it was that a judge could order a spanking as penalty for some offence while another official would administer it.
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Re: Someone's Knocking....
« Reply #11 on: August 23, 2009, 02:35:18 AM »
 Hi Finwitch ... glad to see you posting on the English forums  :D

Reading your comment, I think we are close together on this.... standards and discipline should be the same for both girls and boys, ... and adult brats  :roll: :roll: :whistle: 

I would note that individuals are unique and what works for one person may not work for another.

:thinking: I have mixed feelings about the schools or judiciary administering this.


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Re: Someone's Knocking....
« Reply #12 on: August 23, 2009, 04:19:01 AM »
good input Finwitch and I do agree on there.

I however don't think, Dustbunny, that school
teachers should have an option to reprimand
students in that way, lower grades are enough
trouble for the student. haha.
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Re: Someone's Knocking....
« Reply #13 on: August 31, 2009, 09:13:41 PM »
I wouldn't feel comfortable with the idea either, that teachers were allowed to discipline anyone physically. There has been and always been those individuals who are on a power trip over anyone they can.

However, if someone commits a self-centered crime (like driving drunk), I would almost buy a ticket to see his/her ass whooped. If their parents haven't taught them to behave and respect other people's rights, the court should.

I mean.... can you imagine a celebrity, or a bad politician getting spanked in public for drinking and driving... ? :D
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Re: Someone's Knocking....
« Reply #14 on: October 15, 2009, 06:32:12 AM »
WOW GOOD PINTS HERE EVERYONE HAS MADE. WITH ME R/L HAS STEPED UP AND TOTALY TAKEN OVER MY LIFE. I HAVE A GRANDBABY THAT KEEPS ME BUSY, I TRAVEL WHEN I CAN AND AS OFFEN AS I CAN. MY HEALTH FOR AWHILE WAS ROUGH AND SCHOOL OHMY GOODNESS SCHOOL TAKES UP SO MUCH AS I WAS ON THE DEANS LIST  FOR THE LAST 3 TIMES BUT NOT THIS TIME AROUND :cry:.....THERE ARE TIMES WHEN EVERYONE GETS BUSY AND THINGS HAPPEN . SO WHEN THIS DOES GO ON JUST TRY TO DO YOUR BEST IS ALL AND POST WHEN U CAN.